Jaid Black: The Queen of Steam

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A Tale of Orthodox Appliances

September 7, 2012

You really can't find anything better built or more top-of-the-line than Bosch so when I purchased my new home I was thrilled to see that the previous owner had installed all new, never before used, Bosch kitchen appliances. Now here's where it gets funny...

The first time I attempted to use my sta…

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Updates On Moi

August 28, 2012

Forgive me for being so removed as of late. I have been busy, busy, busy (and still am) moving into my new house. (I had forgotten just how much of a pain in the ass the moving process is... OMG!! I hate to admit it, but I'd be up Shit Creek without a paddle was it not for Jose lol)

Anyway, I have…

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I Got My New House!!

August 7, 2012

I'm soooo happy to report that I ended up getting my Tuscan-themed estate after all. Following much back-and-forth (and irritating as hell) negotiations, we are closing August 17th! Thanks, ma, for taking on the stress of negotiating with a certain mean old Italian man lol.

This couldn't have happe…

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A Tale of 2 Goobers (and 1 Mom)

August 6, 2012

The last time you heard from me I was in the midst of a very embarrassing, and very public, meltdown. I might not have taken things to the Charlie Sheen level of warlock blood and cohabitation with two broke-down goddesses, but it was a definite meltdown nonetheless. I was feeling (and still feel) v…

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Important Announcement from Jaid

August 5, 2012

Important Announcement from Jaid:

It is with a heavy heart and more than a few tears that I need to inform you of my decision to retire. I understand that I have let my readers and listeners down and for this I am genuinely sorry. Please understand that this wasn't an easy choice for me to make; I…

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Important & Difficult Update

August 5, 2012

Rather than reiterate what is already on my website, I urge you to read the announcement I made on a different blog post. I deeply apologize to all my wonderful readers whom I've let down. I assure you that my decision wasn't an easy one. ~ Jaid

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Cave Chaos Updates

August 4, 2012

We've got a couple of new sections over at Cave Chaos. The first one is Chaotic Newz, where you can stay apprised of all the new happenings on & with the show. This is also where we will announce when we start taking callers again. The newest section, my favorite section, features parodies and/or bl…

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Parents Abused By Their Kids

August 3, 2012

A friend of mine is being verbally & emotionally battered by her teenage daughter on a near daily basis. The behavior has been ongoing for about 2-3  years now and only gets worse with time. I'm writing this entry today so parents become aware that, yes, parental abuse by teens not only exists, but …

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Updates & Changes

July 21, 2012

I've got a few updates!

  1. Cave Chaos Radio is implementing several changes from now through December. Keep up-to-date on all our info in our Chaotic Newz section and on our Cave Chaos Facebook page.

  2. Don't miss our Monday, July 23rd show "Femme Dommes & Male Submission," to find out how you can win…

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I Expected More From Time Magazine

July 3, 2012

I've been in this business long enough to know that the media doesn't report news, they create it. So why was I surprised when Time Magazine decided to misrepresent, skew, and twist the facts like almost every other publication has concerning the "Fifty Shades Phenomenon?" Because I expected more fr…

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Toxic Friendship

June 17, 2012

I think the worst type of person to find yourself in a toxic friendship with is the girl/guy who tells you that you matter with words, but hasn't backed up the lip service with their behavior in quite a long time. They used to walk the walk once upon a time, so you forgive and forget on the first …

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Gloom & Doom

June 1, 2012

I'm having one of those BLAH days. You know what I'm talking about: that day where nothing goes as planned from the second you wake up until the moment you go to sleep. That day when the dreary weather outside only makes one's mood that much more... BLAH. Anyway, unless we're talking about someone i…

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Interview With Sounds Erotic

May 20, 2012

Happy Mother's Day

May 13, 2012

I hope all the moms out there have a wonderfully self-absorbed day because we totally deserve it! Every other day of the year our focus is on others so basking in what we want for a change is healthy, necessary, and should happen far more often than it does. Enjoy yourselves!

~ Jaid

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Irresponsible Pringles Ad

May 8, 2012

If you find Pringles' latest "taste explosion" ad insensitive and irresponsible, then please take a moment to let Pringles know how you feel. Below is the email I sent to them; feel free to copy/paste any and all parts of it to expedite the process.

~ Jaid


Your latest taste explosion ad (with…

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Fatman & Robyn Has Released!

May 4, 2012

In case you haven't heard me shout it from the cyber rooftops yet, Something Wicked This Way Comes: Volume II has released!! My story in the anthology is a contemporary, romantic, erotic comedy. I feel really proud of my writing in this one so I hope you enjoy it :-))

~ Jaid

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Too Cute!

April 20, 2012

A picture just taken of Teddy, 1 of my daughter's 3 long-haired Chihuahuas, cuddled up with my ma. Awww... it's a Kodak moment :-)

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EC's SHE-E-O on Bloomberg

April 16, 2012

Our ab fab SHE-E-O (my ridiculously cute mommy!!) was on Bloomberg today, interviewed by Margaret Brennan. Bloomberg is like the TV version of Forbes meets the Wall Street Journal... it keeps up with financial news & trends.

Anyway, the funny part (I can call it funny now that the horror is over!) i…

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Girlies With Curlies

April 9, 2012

I rarely go all cheerleader over hair products I try, but we girlies with natural curlies need to have each other's backs :-P Anyhoo, I've been using the hemp-based Marrakesh Aragon Oil treatment system and... it actually works!! Due to laziness, I'll just repost the review I posted on Amazon. I thi…

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Life Has Been Craaaaazy

March 26, 2012

My professional life has been crazy busy lately (OK always!) but it's also been great :-) Here's a few updates for you in case you missed them on
Twitter or Facebook:



1) Something Wicked This Way Comes: Volume I released back in December. My contribution in the anthology is "The Addi…

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