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FYI & Jaid's Skin Smoothies

Posted February 13, 2012

FYI:

I'm enabling comments for all my future posts here, just like I have at my anxiety blog, but plsss don't get upset if I don't reply right away because I'm not online very much :-)

Jaid's Skin Smoothies:

I'm finally starting to feel better and am ready to take care of myself again (yay! :)) so tonight I whipped up some of my oh so versatile skin smoothies for my daughters and me. I played around with various ingredients for about a year before perfecting my recipe so trust me that it works! This concoction is awesome and very healing to the skin and hair. And I'm sharing the final result of much trial & error with you for free. (Ain't I sweet? :-PPPP) Anyway, my basic recipe is as follows:

  • 1 cup pure extra virgin coconut oil with a butter consistency
  • 1 cup raw, pure Shea butter, preferably imported from West Africa
  • 1-2 teaspoons of extra virgin olive oil

Pretty simple, huh? That it took me a year to arrive at this specific combination feels kinda ridiculous when the ingredients total a whopping 3, but there it is! Okay, my self-criticism aside, all you have to do is vigorously mix the above ingredients together with a spoon. To make it easier on yourself I recommend mixing the olive oil and Shea butter together first and adding the coconut oil in after that. Pure, raw Shea is NOT smooth; it has a clay-like consistency that the olive oil will smooth out for you.

Skin Uses:

  • Repair scarring
  • Prevent and/or repair stretch marks
  • Repair skin discolorations (i.e. "liver spots")
  • Prevent and/or repair wrinkles
  • Moisturize skin
  • Softens skin
  • Repair dry or weather-damaged skin
  • Relieve pain from swelling or arthritis
  • Rejuvenates skin
  • Massages
  • Repairs skin elasticity

Hair Uses:

  • Repair dry, damaged hair
  • Deeply condition hair

How To Use It:

I should warn you that a little bit goes a long way. My daughter left & below) is modeling what NOT to do! In other words, don't slather your skin with it like you're buttering a turkey for Thanksgiving. (A dime-sized amount will easily cover both of your hands and you need even less for your face.) If you can see yellow on your skin, you've not added enough coconut oil.

If you're using this to repair damaged hair, the same rule applies; don't dump all of it on your head or it'll take you a week to wash it all out lol. All you do is put a nickel-sized to silver dollar-sized (depending on hair thickness and length) in the palm of your hand, work it into dry, clean hair, leave in for 2-3 hours, then shampoo your hair. The result will be silky smooth, luminous hair!

How Often To Use:

For your hair, once every 1-2 weeks. There should be noticeable luster immediately and noticeable repair after about 4 treatments. For your skin, use it every night. Your skin will feel very oily when you go to sleep, but it will absorb my smoothie throughout the night. You should see a noticeable improvement to your skin within days and a noticeable repair to blemishes within 2-4 weeks.

Buying The Ingredients:

You can find good, pure olive oil in any grocery store and pure coconut oil in any health food store. The not-so-easy part, unless you happen to live in West Africa, is finding raw, unrefined Shea butter. Luckily we live in the age of technology so you can get it pretty easily on the internet. Up until about 6 months ago, it cost an exorbitant amount of money to import, but now Amazon carries an import from Ghana via a Halal store at a very reasonable price!

The Exact Ingredients I use:

Enjoy! :-)

~ Jaid

My Panic Site

Posted January 29, 2012

 

I now have 2 personal sites... 1 for business (here) and 1 for the bullshit I go through with panic disorder. My panic site currently consists of 1 page that incorporates info with a blog. It will be of little to no interest to most of you, but for my fellow PD sufferers... you might get something out of it :-) Either way, Happy Sunday!

Win A Free e-Cave Reader!

Posted January 12, 2012

 

 

For the next 4 weeks we're giving away a free e-Cave Reader every Monday during Cave Chaos to one randomly selected RomantiCon 2012 attendee! Click here to read the eligibility requirements and don't forget to tune in on Munday Fundays to win!

Images of Real Women

Posted January 1, 2012

I want 2012 to be the year of the real woman. No more Twiggies, no more emaciated models who exist on flavored cotton balls to feel full, no more denigrating healthy women with curves for looking like... well... healthy women with curves!

Here's a few more images (from Glamour, Italian Vogue & French Elle) that I love, love, LOVE!! They are such beautiful women. (Oh and men? For the scientific record, even though society has conditioned you to be attracted to stick figures with breast implants, studies overwhelmingly show that males, even if unaware, become more aroused by women who look like these ladies than by the typical twigs in magazines and on TV ;-))


Happy 2012!

Posted January 1, 2012

I had a great New Years and I hope every one of you did too! I rang in 2012 with my close friends and family, which is the way it should be. At 12:01 A.M. we had the traditional northern pork & sauerkraut meal for good luck, which was soooo good. (I'm glad I no longer live in the South because ham hocks and black-eyed peas were never my thang lol.)

My resolution this year is to not make resolutions. I'm just gonna work on being the best me I can be :-)

Steak Soup Recipe

Posted December 26, 2011

 

I've had a few ppl ask for my steak soup recipe. Unfortunately, I don't have one... I have a tendency to just sorta make stuff up and then remember what combinations I used if my kids and I liked the outcome :-) On that note, here's my steak soup combination:


  • 1 can green beans, drained
  • 5-6 small potatoes, peel and cut
  • 1 small bag of carrots, peel and cut
  • 2 small onions, whole

Put the veggies in crock pot (veggies should always be on the bottom,) then place top sirloin on top of that. Use enough meat to cover the veggies. You can remove the bone if you want to, but you get more flavor if you cook it with the bone. Season to taste. I use:

  • garlic powder
  • seasoned salt
  • lots of black pepper

On top of the meat and spices throw in:

  • 1 carton Swanson's chicken broth
  • 3 cans cream of mushroom soup

Set on low, simmer 12-16 hours. Voilà!

Animated: 12 Crimes of Kinkmas

Posted December 24, 2011

Over at Cave Chaos we've gotten a lot (and I do mean a LOT!) of raves for our 12 Crimes of Kinkmas show. Since everybody who wrote to us mentioned the show's theme song, our techie guru Darrell King created an animated video to go along with the song. It had me ROTFLMFAO!! I hope you enjoy it and Merry Christmas :-)

Night Owl Reviews - Top Pick!! Wooooot!!

Posted December 20, 2011

 

The Addiction by Jaid Black was totally hilarious while also being poignant and emotional. A feat not often pulled off in erotic fiction. I will return to this story again and again just for the laughs.

"Something Wicked This Way Comes" Is Here!

Posted December 20, 2011

 

You can now purchase SWTWC: Vol 1 at Amazon and Barnes & Noble! Releases everywhere else on December 28. I hope you love it :-)

Another Review of "The Addiction"

Posted December 20, 2011

Talk about an emotional roller coaster!  I laughed, I almost cried, I got hot and horny, and dang if I didn’t fall in love with John Calder!  The women of the world love a tortured hero, and Shelli is no different.  The chemistry between these two characters was sizzling and the plot was very believable.  A fairytale story between the poor, struggling PhD and the rich, lonely businessman.  Of course, this isn’t your mom’s Cinderella story...  There’s way too much hot, electrifying sex for that! ~ You Gotta Read Reviews

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